The Perfect Bath

We bathe to clean; we bathe to relax; we love to bathe. The perfect bath is the best way to leave an impression. Whether your meeting casually, hanging regularly, or together constantly the best impression is a clean one.

When setting up a bath, it is good to remember that a bath is not always just a bath. If you combine these elements: warm water, relaxing music, scented candles, bubble bath or essential oils you no longer have a bath you have a sensual experience.


A bath can achieve one of two outcomes. If you have taken the time to draw the perfect bath-you’ll leave a lingering impression.

However, if the water is cold and the music annoying, then you may as well have told her she looks fat in those pants, or more tragically been late for dinner because with this action you’ve just said that your partner deserves a half-ass effort. So, go the distance and remember temperature, mood, and a fluffy towel.

The Setup:
Drawing the perfect bath requires a clean tub with the right kind of spa like quality. Add either essential oils or bubbles prior to running the bath.

They’re many types of essential oils. They can be used in combination or alone producing a different affect depending upon the oil chosen.


For insomnia try this recipe
* 4 drops Chamomile
* 2 drops Lavender
* 2 drops Neroli
* 2 drops Marjoram

For an energizing bath try this recipe
* 3 drops Rosemary
* 2 drops Lemon
* 2 drops Frankincense

For relieving nervousness try this recipe
* 6 drops Geranium
* 4 drops Basil

For a relaxing and calming bath try this recipe
* 2 drops Lavender
* 2 drops Bergamot
* 2 drops Cedarwood

Now that you have a warm bath with manicured water, let’s talk about the external surroundings. Nothing spells sensuality like a few discretely placed candles and soft music filling the air.


Turn the lights down low and strategically place little candles around the tub.

Outside the bathroom provide a soothing presence by playing nature sounds, peaceful chants, or spiritual melodies. Please remember during your music selection, nothing ruins a perfect bath like electrocution so keep the music out of the bathroom, but don’t forget it completely. Music has such an incredible affect on a person. The right music can unlock tension from the body, mind and soul.














The perfect soak will be around 100 degrees Fahrenheit and should last around 20 minutes. People who find the perfect bath too perfect also tend to find relaxation too with that comes sleep. Therefore, it is a good idea to check on the soaker. Think about it like you are investing in a night to come, so this is a good opportunity to offer a back wash, which has been known to be worth its weight in gold.





Now is not the time to get dressed! Instead, you will want to make sure the skin is properly moisturized and relaxed. After the bath, you will want to lock in the sensual experience with a great massage. One of the best moisturizers I know and love to use is Cocoa Butter. Its soothing properties and orgasmic smell aide the skin in retaining moisture. Also, it stimulates the pleasures senses. So lather up the skin and prepare to reap the benefits of this ultimate moisturizer.

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